….the future is unknown so live now everyday… no pouting over the little things, no more headaches when something goes wrong, no more drama. But just like the future these things are inevitable, and you decisively remember those times so you can pinpoint the pain you’ve gone through.. But when you weigh on the past you can never heal for the future and to actually live, you must live and die in the day. Its not the question whether you can carry on but whether a change can carry on within you . Fearing the inevitable, fearing keeps you from determining who you really are and what you can overcome. Yes it’s a force of nature but by binding yourself to one thought and trapping yourself in it you will ultimatley lose yourself. SH